This is the third post in our 3-part series, You’re Engaged! Now What?
Catch up on part one on caring for your engagement ring, here, and part two on selecting wedding and spacer bands, here.

As you embark on the journey of planning your dream wedding, one of the most exciting details to consider has to be the jewelry that will adorn you on your special day. Am I biased? Absolutely. But hear me out and I bet you’ll come to agree.

The shimmer of each piece you choose to wear will contribute not only to your look, but to the way you feel and carry yourself on this day that’s all about YOU. So, let’s talk jewelry considerations for your aesthetic, dress, and that magical energy you’re calling in on your wedding day.

To Mix or Match Metals

A good place to start is to think about the metal in your engagement ring and wedding band. Is it yellow gold, white gold, rose gold, platinum, or a combination of tones?

Consider your engagement ring as your shining centerpiece and decide whether you want your jewelry to harmonize or if you’re open to introducing a touch of contrast.

Stones that Speak to You

Diamonds are probably the most obvious choice when considering stones for your wedding day. No doubt they’ve earned their seat on the throne for a reason. But some looks just call for a pearl moment. Or perhaps something less conventional- or a combination of stones. Diamond and pearl drop earrings, anyone?

Let your personal style guide your choice of stones. Stick with a touch of diamonds here and there or mix it up with an assortment of stones— you’ll never go wrong if your look feels like, well…you.

If your dress or other pieces of your wedding look feature specific stones, consider integrating them into your jewelry for some flow. Whether it's the timeless sparkle of diamonds, the classic elegance of pearls, or something more unique, let your choice of stones tell another piece of your story.

Complement Your Neckline

Your dress neckline speaks louder than words. And she has preferences when it comes to selecting jewelry. Let’s talk about it.

If you're donning a plunging neckline, a lariat necklace can elegantly accentuate the décolletage. A tighter, collar necklace, on the other hand, might feel mismatched with this style.

High necklines and one-shoulder dresses make it difficult to wear necklaces, but these styles look often fantastic with a statement or drop earring.

A subtle V-neck or sweetheart neckline can pair beautifully with a shorter pendant or tennis necklace.

Choose your dress before your jewelry to let the neckline guide your style selection for a balanced, show-stopping look.

Seasonal Sensibility

Consider the season and weather conditions when choosing your jewelry, especially when it comes to bracelets.

Tennis bracelets can seriously elevate your look in the Spring and Summer when sleeves are unlikely but they may not be the ideal choice in winter or any time sleeves are involved. And renting tennis bracelets on your big day is a great way to add varying styles and sizes to your wrist stack.

Delicate bracelets can be prone to snagging on fabrics, so if you’re planning to wear a coat or long sleeves of any kind, opt for statement earrings or a necklace to make a bold impact without compromising practicality.

Honoring Heirlooms

There’s nothing like the gift of a precious family heirloom to honor a beloved relationship or a loved one gone too soon. Incorporating such a cherished ‘something borrowed’ or ‘something old’ into your big day can be so meaningful.

Mixing old and new not only adds depth to your wedding day, but it’s one of my favorite ways to truly make a look your own. Whether it's your grandmother's pearls, your mother's earrings, or a borrowed piece from a close friend, these sentimental touches enrich your look with history and emotional significance.

As you navigate the intricate choices of wedding jewelry, remember that each piece contributes to the unique tapestry of your bridal ensemble. Everyone should have a chance to shine in the grandeur of diamonds, especially on a day all about you.

So, if investing in something new isn’t quite in the cards for you in this chapter of life, perhaps renting is. Reverence Rentals was born to make luxury jewelry accessible, and what better way to shine than in something borrowed that feels like it was made just for you?

And to our cherished clients who have custom-designed their engagement rings with me, we extend a special offer— free diamond stud rentals and a 10% discount on any other rentals for your wedding day.

Choosing the right wedding jewelry should be such a fun part of your wedding planning journey. Let your personal style shine, and embrace the sentimental stories that each piece carries. Your wedding day is a celebration of love, and your jewelry should reflect just that.